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INSPIRATION & LIFERelationshipsWinter 2023
winter 2023

A Cornerstone Of Love

My Family Bonds Transcend Physical Space And Help Me Fly
Written by: I’Ja Wright

Family is the cornerstone of our lives, a source of love, support and guidance that shapes us into the individuals we become. As a young, goal-driven Black woman in today’s society, the family holds a special place in my heart and plays a significant role in my pursuit of success. While chasing our dreams often requires sacrifice, the bond with our loved ones remains unbreakable.

Growing up, my family instilled in me the importance of education, hard work and perseverance. They constantly reminded me that I could achieve anything I set my mind to, regardless of the obstacles I may face. Their unwavering belief in my abilities fueled my ambition and gave me the courage to dream big.

Family means support. It is what improves my abilities and encourages me to pursue my passions. Whether it is cheering me on throughout my life achievements, attending my events or simply being a listening ear when I need to vent, my family is always there. They have taught me the importance of having a strong support system and have shown me that with their backing, I can conquer anything that comes my way.

In a world where Black women often face unique challenges and systemic barriers, having a supportive family is invaluable. They understand the struggles and setbacks I may encounter, providing a safe space where I can express my frustrations and fears without judgment. Their encouragement and empathy serve as a constant reminder that I am not alone in my journey.

However, the pursuit of my dreams does not come without sacrifice. Time spent with family can often be compromised as I dedicate countless hours to my studies, career and personal development. The late nights and early mornings, the missed family gatherings and celebrations all become necessary sacrifices in the pursuit of my goals. Yet, amidst these sacrifices, my love for my family remains unshaken.

Despite the physical distance and limited time together, our bond grows stronger. We cherish the moments we do have, making the most of the quality time we share. We celebrate each other’s achievements and milestones, even from afar, because family support transcends physical presence. Phone calls, video chats and heartfelt messages become lifelines that bridge the gap and remind us of the love that binds us together.

My family’s support inspires me to work harder and reach higher. Their belief in my abilities fuels my determination, pushing me to overcome any obstacles that come my way. Their sacrifices, too, motivate me to make the most of the opportunities I have been afforded, knowing that they were made to provide me with a better future.

In a society that often overlooks the unique struggles faced by Black women, my family serves as a constant reminder of my worth and potential. They have taught me to rise above adversity, embrace my identity and never allow societal limitations to define my capabilities. Their love is a shield that protects me from the negativity that may surround me.

Born and raised in Cleveland, Ohio, I’Ja Wright is a podcast host and entrepreneur, and a marketing major at Columbia College, Chicago. With a background in wardrobe styling, broadcast journalism and creative direction, she also works in event curation.